5 reasons every woman needs a pair of Vibrating Panties!

One of the many great parts of my job as a Sexual Wellness Coach is that I get to test products for the Love Shop, and they have asked me to test vibrating panties. Wooohooo! I love my job! Now anyone who knows me well knows I never wear panties. There is now an exception to my rule. Vibrating Panties make life exciting!!! Here are some of the ways that my already very pleasure-filled life is now even better: Driving – Important safety tip: make sure you don’t close your eyes while you orgasm. If your orgasms are super intense and your body spasms, then don’t use them while driving. Just make sure the panties are on a low speed so they can send pleasure that can make driving in rush hour enjoyable not dangerous. I was in the parking lot at Value Village and I had a 35 minute drive ahead of me, so I thought “let’s try out my new vibrating panties from the love shop.” I put them on in the parking lot and turned them on to make sure it wouldn’t be too intense and OMG it was just right. I had about 20 mini-orgasms while driving. Best drive ever. Paperwork – I usually hate it! Not anymore, thank you vibrating panties. Computer/Administration work- Desk work has become a wonderful thing in my life because of the Vibrating Panties. Giving oral sex – I have always loved giving an epic blow job, but now because I am having little orgasms from the VP ( Vibrating Panties) I enjoy it even more. Not to mention my...

Mi-Vibe Vortec product review

Toy review: mi-vibe vortec endless pleasures MIV009005 I give this product 7.5 out of 10. It has great power with 10 different rhythms and speeds for some teasing that leads to pleasing. It is a sexy green colour with delightful swirl for more pleasure. Due to it waterproof feature you can play with in the shower and it is female ejaculation friendly. Over all it is a good basic vibrator for the price point. Staying excited !!! Gaia Shawna Morrissette p.s. Always remember if you need help,education and  support I am always available for...

How many kinds of Orgasms have you had?

Let’s talk about orgasms! Weeeeee!!!!! But before we get into the fun, let’s touch on the difference between achieving orgasms and having orgasmic pleasure and experiences. Achieving Orgasm: The idea and language around the phrase “achieving orgasm” sets many women up for missing out on orgasm altogether, and that leads to everyone involved feeling bad about it. This article is written with the female orgasm in mind, but a lot of the information can also be applied to men’s orgasmic experience. (P.S. Guys – there is a difference between your ejaculation and orgasm. I will write about that another time.) As I have talked about in other articles, orgasmic pleasure is the happy by-product of surrendering to pleasure. The more it becomes about the goal of orgasm as an outcome, the further away you get from truly orgasmic pleasure and bliss. SO STOP TRYING TO HAVE OR ACHIEVE ORGASMS!!! JUST SURRENDER TO RECEIVING PLEASURE AND ORGASMIC EXPERIENCES WILL FOLLOW. I promise. Okay, now let’s get into the fun stuff. Experiencing Orgasmic Pleasure: Orgasmic pleasure can happen in many different parts of your body once your erogenous zones are fully awake. To learn all about the erogenous zones, read my article “Erogenous Zones 101.” See, most people are so focused solely on orgasmic possibilities that stem from direct stimulus to the genital area. I say, as long as you believe in that one kind of orgasm, you are missing out on a world of epic orgasmic pleasure! I have been able to experience toe-gasms , knee-gasms and my favorite, armpit orgasm… I know crazy. Let me tell you a story:...

Erogenous Zones 101: The power of the magical, sexual buttons in the human body

What is an erogenous zone? These are spots in the body that have a cluster of nerve endings that can be the source of epic pleasure and bliss once they have been awakened and explored. I’m excited to be able to give you a list of where those buttons are and what you can do with them. But before we get into where the erogenous zones are in the body, you need two important pieces of information: Tickles: The body responds to tickling for two reasons. First, erogenous zones are dying to be let out. When the nerve endings are hypersensitive, they just need to be calmed so you can feel the pleasure underneath. To do this you have to touch with more firmness and slower movements, allowing the nervous system and nerve endings to relax and become calm. Then the pleasure can be explored. The second reason a person could experience tickles is that the body doesn’t want to be touched. There is a built in defense mechanism that is triggered when a person is not feeling safe or comfortable. It sends the nervous system into overdrive. If this is the case, take a deep breath and evaluate why you don’t want to be touched and decide if you can allow yourself to feel safe. If you find you are safe and comfortable, then the nervous system will calm down and you will be good to go. If not, then respect and listen to your body and ask the person to stop touching you until you can figure out what is wrong. This happens often with people who...

Removing the bum play taboo

It hard to imagine that just a few decades ago, the conversation of oral sex was unspeakable. Then, slowly over the years, it was threesomes. Now it seems that anal sex is the last taboo in sexual relationships, especially when it comes to heterosexual males. An article in Psychology Today   points to a 2008 study, which claims that around 15 percent heterosexual men said that they had received analingus while 24 percent had received anal fingering. But the data surrounding how many straight men have engaged in prostate play remains unclear. While heterosexual men might be more willing to engage in anal sex if they’re performing it on a woman, less are willing to engage in anal play on themselves. The reasons for doing so are obviously personal and vary from man to man, but one of the most common reasons stems from the stigma of anal sex being connected to homosexual relationships. It seems that some men need to be reminded that prostate and anal play does not dictate your sexuality in the slightest. And if you’re hesitant to try it because you believe it has any indication of your sexual orientation, then all you’re doing is denying yourself what could be some of the most powerful orgasms you can experience. On the other hand, for those that are avoiding anal play because they believe it will be painful, allow me to let you in on a little secret: It doesn’t have to be. In fact, it can be quite pleasurable. While there are plenty of nerve endings within the anus that can be enjoyable when stimulated,...

3 Secrets to becoming a Multi-Orgasmic woman !

Okay ladies, are you ready to discover how to become multi-orgasmic? Any woman can learn to experience multiple orgasms with training, practice, and of course, surrendering to pleasure and her own body. First of all, in order for a woman to become multi-orgasmic, she must feel comfortable having an orgasm. If, as a woman, you are not there yet, don’t worry! Please go read my article “Top 3 Reasons why some women don’t have orgasms! How that can change!” There are some great tips and tricks to beginning your orgasmic pleasure. As women, once we learn how to be multi-orgasmic then there is no limit on the types (stay tuned for that article) or amount of orgasms our body is capable of expressing. Women and the lovers who want to support multi-orgasmic bliss…let’s get started! 1. Oversensitivity: For many women, once they have had a clitoris orgasm their clit, vagina and sometimes their whole body can be soooo super sensitive that if you continue to touch her, she might want to punch you in the head…not sexy and not a great way to end the sexual experience with non-consensual violence. Here is a little trick my Tantra teachers taught me: Don’t break contact with the clit after orgasm. Don’t keep moving, or applying pressure but instead be very, very still while maintaining contact with her clit. It doesn’t matter if you are using your tongue, finger, hand, toy, penis, or something else, stay still for 10-20 seconds giving the nervous system and nerve ends time to relax and not be in hypersensitive mode. After you wait 10-20 seconds, very...