5 reasons every woman needs a pair of Vibrating Panties!

One of the many great parts of my job as a Sexual Wellness Coach is that I get to test products for the Love Shop, and they have asked me to test vibrating panties. Wooohooo! I love my job! Now anyone who knows me well knows I never wear panties. There is now an exception to my rule. Vibrating Panties make life exciting!!! Here are some of the ways that my already very pleasure-filled life is now even better: Driving – Important safety tip: make sure you don’t close your eyes while you orgasm. If your orgasms are super intense and your body spasms, then don’t use them while driving. Just make sure the panties are on a low speed so they can send pleasure that can make driving in rush hour enjoyable not dangerous. I was in the parking lot at Value Village and I had a 35 minute drive ahead of me, so I thought “let’s try out my new vibrating panties from the love shop.” I put them on in the parking lot and turned them on to make sure it wouldn’t be too intense and OMG it was just right. I had about 20 mini-orgasms while driving. Best drive ever. Paperwork – I usually hate it! Not anymore, thank you vibrating panties. Computer/Administration work- Desk work has become a wonderful thing in my life because of the Vibrating Panties. Giving oral sex – I have always loved giving an epic blow job, but now because I am having little orgasms from the VP ( Vibrating Panties) I enjoy it even more. Not to mention my...

Erogenous Zones 101: The power of the magical, sexual buttons in the human body

What is an erogenous zone? These are spots in the body that have a cluster of nerve endings that can be the source of epic pleasure and bliss once they have been awakened and explored. I’m excited to be able to give you a list of where those buttons are and what you can do with them. But before we get into where the erogenous zones are in the body, you need two important pieces of information: Tickles: The body responds to tickling for two reasons. First, erogenous zones are dying to be let out. When the nerve endings are hypersensitive, they just need to be calmed so you can feel the pleasure underneath. To do this you have to touch with more firmness and slower movements, allowing the nervous system and nerve endings to relax and become calm. Then the pleasure can be explored. The second reason a person could experience tickles is that the body doesn’t want to be touched. There is a built in defense mechanism that is triggered when a person is not feeling safe or comfortable. It sends the nervous system into overdrive. If this is the case, take a deep breath and evaluate why you don’t want to be touched and decide if you can allow yourself to feel safe. If you find you are safe and comfortable, then the nervous system will calm down and you will be good to go. If not, then respect and listen to your body and ask the person to stop touching you until you can figure out what is wrong. This happens often with people who...

7 secrets to giving the ultimate B.J.

After years of working with men I am happy to share my insights on what men want and desire when it comes to receiving mind blowing oral sex. Here are the 7 Secrets to giving the ultimate “hummer”: 1. Lube it up. Keep it wet and slippery. Most guys don’t find friction burn on their penis to be a turn on. What kind of lube you might ask? Your saliva is the best but you can also use flavoured lubes or oils. One of my favourite oils is coconut oil which is also vagina friendly. Just remember if you are using flavour lubes or oils then he should wash his penis before you have intercourse because sugars and other chemicals are not vagina friendly.  Just because the bottle says intercourse safe that does not mean that it is. Anything with sugars or Glycerine and some of the other ingredients in flavoured lubes can cause a yeast infection… It is better to be save then sorry later. The vagina has a very delicate eco system. Yeast infections are not sexy! 2. Pressure. Every man likes a different level of intensity on their penis. But a lot of men have told me that woman don’t usually do enough. So when you have his penis in your mouth and are sucking ask him if he would like more or less suction. That will be your base line for pressure. It is important to use suction when his penis is in your mouth otherwise “it just feels like poking a warm bucket of water.” Don’t forget about your hands. They always need to...