Make Sex Safe

Healing past sexual abuse,  sexual trauma or sexual interference. Charting a path to sexual wellness with Play and Sensuality. Reading about happiness with Stop, Drop and Wiggle, Gaia’s signature book and Boot Camp.

Make Sex Better

Sexual skill building is the sexual education you wish you had when you where a teenager. Read up on the sexuality aspect of wellness and why not come and join a Sex Boot Camp.

Taking It To The Next Level

Take your sex life to the next level by exploring the fun aspects of sex including tantra and kink.


This website is for adults 18 years and older.


Are you tired of being unhappy?

Full of many fun and creative exercises, “Stop! Drop! & Wiggle!” promises a lighthearted and simple method to bring happiness into your daily life. Read more

What is sexual wellness?

Sexual wellness encompasses sexuality as a whole within 5 different aspects : Play, Sensuality, Sexuality, Exploration, Sacred If any one of the aspect are out of whack then it will affect the rest of your sexuality. Your sexual wellness impacts the rest of your life including your mind, body and spirit. Each aspect is important for you nurture and discover so you may have healthy sexual relationships with yourself and others. It is important to understand when within this context, the use of the word sexuality does not simply refer to the act of sexual activity or orgasm, which is a very good, but is only a small part of sexuality. Succulent Living considers sexuality as a whole, which effects our physical health, happiness, passion, creativity, emotional and mental wellbeing. pyramidThe benefits to sexual wellness:

    • More energy
    • Happier in all areas of your life
    • More physical health and longevity
    • Lots and lots of Orgasmic Experiences
    • Deeper connection in your relationship with others
    • Supports improved general wellbeing and joy
    • Increases imagination and creativity
    • Promotes and increasing your communication skills sets
    • Boost self-esteem and self-confidence, among many others.

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Succulent Living’s Philosophy

Making sex Safe! Making Sex better! Help you take it to the next Level! We are all born as perfect sexual beings until societal norms, family dysfunction or painful relationships steal or warp our sense of self-acceptance and sexual power. Don’t worry. You can reclaim, heal and awaken your sexual, succulent being. Sexuality, sensuality and relationships are very complicated areas in our lives. Gaia can help you navigate the waters and help you experience joy, peace and pleasure. Let her be your healer, your cheerleader and sensual adventure guide along your journey of self-exploration and love. You deserve to have a hot juicy sex life!

Succulent Living can help if you

  • healing sexual trauma, sexual abuse and sexual interference
  • are unhappy with your sensual/sexual self
  • are unhappy with your sex life
  • want to have an orgasm
  • have low sexual desire
  • have not yet reached orgasm with yourself or a partner
  • want to control your orgasm
  • want to become multi-orgasmic
  • struggle with rapid ejaculation (premature ejaculation)
  • want to expand your types of orgasmic experiences
  • want more intense orgasms
  • want a deeper sexual-spiritual connection with your lover
  • want a deeper sexual-spiritual connection with yourself
  • desire to love and accept your body
  • want to enhance your sexual pleasure
  • want to expand your sexual techniques/skills
  • find yourself saying, “my vagina made me do it” or “my penis made me do it”
  • feel shame, guilt, fear, anxiety, pressure, stress, or pain in relation to sex and intimate interactions with others
  • use sex to avoid feeling
  • are tired of being in unhealthy relationship
  • desire to rekindle your sexual spark in your relationship
  • curious about alternative sexual relationship and lifestyles

Includes but not limited to above concerns!!

Call Gaia to see how Sexual Wellness Coaching can support you

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Upcoming Adventures

* Gaia will be spending lots of time this year teaching and hosts exciting workshops and events . Come join the learning, self discovery and field trips . Gaia has started two very exciting community meet up groups please check them out KW Women Wellness Meet Up , Succulent Living Time To Say Yes Meet up ” Please visit the Calendar page to see all the excited workshop, talks and events happen in Early 2015.        

How do I start on my path of Sexual Wellness?

Lets Explore the 5 Aspects of Sexual Wellness


What does play have to do with Sexuality? It is the foundation of all sexuality! Sexuality is just adult play. After 12 years of teaching kids I noticed that when they felt safe and secure in themselves, they had no fear of ‘risking’. When they risked, they would play, laugh and explore with abandon. Working with my sexual wellness coaching clients I started to notice that one of the root sexual problems was they did not feel safe and therefore they could not enjoy sex. Read more


Sensuality is being fully in your body and moving through the world with your senses awake. Your five senses are: Smell, taste, touch, sight and sound. Allow yourself permission to experience sensory pleasure moments throughout your day. When you allow yourself sensory pleasure in this way, there is a greater orgasmic payoff. You will experience more intense orgasmic pleasure, multiple orgasms, and of course toe curling orgasms become possible. Women will have an easier time experiencing orgasm, as well are more likely to desire to have sex more often. Woohoo! Men will become more aware of their body which will in turn help to slow down their ejaculation and increase pleasure. Read more


Sexuality in sexual wellness focuses on surrendering to Orgasmic pleasure. In order for Orgasms to happen you must surrender to the experience of pleasure. Most people spend so much time trying to control the pleasure – trying to force the orgasm to happen, missing out on the amazing orgasmic experience and pleasure that their body wants to have and express. This aspect includes the exploration and development of sexual skills and techniques. It starts to work on communication, most importantly, learning to get out of your brain and surrender into your body. Read more


Exploration is where you as a sexual being can now free yourself to spread your wings and start to soar. Developing and creating a new healthy set of sexual core believes that are in line with your deep sexual desires. It is the delightful playground of new pleasure possibilities. So what do I mean by explore? I mean now you are ready to look at your deep sexual desires, and fantasies. This a great time for pleasure self-discover. It is also time to start sharing your sexual desires and fantasies with your lover(s). Read more


The Sacred Aspect is about using the human body as a way to reach high states of consciousness, connecting to the source of life energy in the universe through sexual energy, by discovering how sexual energy can be utilized for more than just orgasmic pleasure. Being able to connect and speak to God or the Universe ( please use whatever language works for you here). It can be used for physical, emotional, spiritual and mental healing. Sacred sexual practices have been around for 1000′s of years in many different cultures. Some better known practices include Tantra, Taoism, Paganism and are frequently found in Aboriginal tribes. Read more


Sexual Wellness Coaching is a blend and mixture of Sex coaching, Life coaching, Sexology, Tantra , Healing Bodywork and Alternative lifestyle coaching